People always argue about whether they need to respect family’s opinions about a future mate. Although there isn’t a standard answer, Jennifer Hudson’s family’s tragedy gives obstinate persons who fall in hot love a warn.
According to “Guilty verdicts in Jennifer Hudson family murder trial”, Jennifer Hudson, a famous singer in American and a excellent actress who won Oscar reward in 2004 for her best performance in Dream girls, lost her mother, younger brother and her nephew at a same murder in 2008. After 4 years, the murderer was eventually convicted who was Jennifer’s brother in law. Balfour, who Jennifer’s sister don’t take care her family’s opposition to get married with, revenged on his estranged wife for her new relationship whit other man by shooting her mother, brother and son.
It is normal to start or end a relationship, but people never predict they will pay the cruel price like this to end a relationship. How do people introduce monsters into their life and family originally? Young people call for freedom for love, that isn’t to say, they can ignore family’s opinion. Some opinion come from parent’s prejudice about looks or wealth, which they can ignore; some opinion is about the person’s quality or personality which parent’s don’t agree, which they should pay attention to. At present, many young people spoil themselves on relationship. They would like to fall in love with different kinds of persons; however, what they don’t know is that it is easy to say “Hello” and “difficult” to say “Good-bye”. Just like Balfour, a violent and jealous man, when he had to face his marriage fail, he appeared what he really was-a monster. People go more night way, it is more probable to encounter a ghost. It is time to be responsible not only to themselves but also to their family. Find a lover with good personality, and they had better to make sure they really love each other when they introduce their future mate into family formally. We hope God can save those heinous souls; nevertheless, the only way to protect us from harm is to keep far away from them.
References
Guilty verdicts in Jennifer Hudson family murder trial. (2012, May 12). BBC News. Retrieved May 14,2012 from
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-us-canada-18043638
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ReplyDeleteCrystal,
I have a question for you.In your last paragraph last sentence, u said that the only way to protect us from harm is to keep far away from them.
I wonder how do you know it is dangerous for us? How we stay away from the jeopardous situation?
It is a good question for you.When you fall in love with somebody,he definitely has attractive quality or personality to you,such as good looks,rich or resourceful personality which a man show you to attract you.we aren't talking about these obvious advantages,which we need to pay attention to is how he treat with the person who disagreed with him or hurted him in the past? What does he want to hide? What does he fear to lose in life? We need to know the things which your future parter has to show without initiative.I am not a optimistic person in a relationship.I often thought what kind of end my relatiop would have at the worst extent before I started to accept somebody.I think everybody should prodict the end of a relationship because you can't control two person's business by yourself.If you think it is safe to break with him,you can start a new relationship. These can explain the reason many lovers experience the process of broking up, reconciling with each other,then getting married at last.
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